Anonymous asked: are you sexually attracted to your boyfriend? I feel you - not interested in straight porn, Im married to a man I am deeply in love with, but cant shut off the part of me thats interested in women. I would say sexuality is a spectrum (the kinsey scale is helpful). I think it just comes down to fidelity. if you have romantic and sexually attraction with your partner, then talk about it with him. if youre not sexually attracted to him... maybe it's best to leave
I am attracted to him, but I feel like the attraction is fuelled by love, instead of lust…which is good I think(?). It’s good to know that others have the same dilemma. <3
I’m so torn by this. I’m in a relationship with a man…and very happy with him. But I’m having trouble defining myself sexually. I’m certainly not straight. And if I love my boyfriend then I can’t be a lesbian…can I? I’m just so attracted to women. I hate straight porn. I look at girls on the street instead of guys. Yet I’ve never been more sure in my life how much I love my boyfriend. This is hard because love and sexual attraction can be so separate.